Relationships are the substrate of meaning. In isolation, nothing matters. In connection, everything does.
But relationships require maintenance. They are not static states but dynamic processes. Love is a verb before it is a noun.
Practice presence. When you are with someone, be with them fully. Partial attention is partial connection. The gift of full presence is increasingly rare, and therefore increasingly valuable.
Practice honesty, tempered by kindness. Relationships built on pleasant lies are houses built on sand. But honesty without compassion is cruelty. Find the balance.
Practice repair. All relationships involve hurt—misunderstandings, failed expectations, words spoken in anger. The skill is not to avoid damage but to restore connection after damage occurs.
And practice letting go. Some relationships complete their natural cycle. Some become harmful. Wisdom includes knowing when to release, and releasing with gratitude for what was.